My ds school had my ds mental health arrested a week ago, and i had to meet him at the hospital. Instead of hopping in my car to meet him, i was on the side of the rd with my two yr old for an hour waiting for a ride.
I told dh how i felt about everything, not just this, and hes pretty much ignored it. Just like he does me and the kids. Fuck him. Im packing some stuff today, and going to see if he even notices.
I was so close to just having myself comitted last week bc it would just be easier than this bullshit. I still may.
Quoting Aslen:
Dont commit yourself. He could use it against you.
If/when you leave have your dad fix that break line so you aren't without a car anymore! Good luck! I hope this works out for the best!
Quoting Aslen:
Dont commit yourself. He could use it against you.
Quoting Ksmomy:
I'm sorry! I'm guessing you aren't looking for advice. When you have a "partner" who is selfish and making life harder it really is easier to do it alone. I don't believe in staying with someone for the sake of the kids or always working it out. I do believe that a person should stay as long as they can and try everything they can to work things out but if all is said and done and things never change then do what's best for you and the kids.
If/when you leave have your dad fix that break line so you aren't without a car anymore! Good luck! I hope this works out for the best!
Quoting Dimples04:
Not to mention just leaving the kids in that situation.
Quoting Aslen:
Dont commit yourself. He could use it against you.
No Sweetie!! Having yourself commited is not the answer nor the way. The way to get change is to first change. Change how you deal with DH and how you respond and yes maybe you will have to move out and on with your life. Most important thing is to make sure that you are safe and confrontable, so that you can take care of your children. A unhealthy moom leads to an unhealthy home.
Don't do it unless you intend on harming yourself of the kids. Trust me, I've been there done that, and it was the worst decision I've ever made. It just puts the whole thing on hold!
Quoting Aslen:
Dont commit yourself. He could use it against you.
Even if he didn't use it against you, you'd still have children that would be able to say later in life, "Mommy had herself committed", and you are still removing yourself from their presence, intentionally.
I understand your frustration, if you are really done and ready to go, by all means, go. But think very carefully about what you are doing.
When you met your dh/so?
- LoveMyLos
on Oct. 17, 2012 at 7:51 AM