I am of the impression that men are getting married to some ladies so they can " get it over with". They say marriage is for ladies so in essence most men dont really want to be married! is this evidence that they are always looking elsewhere and their desire to cheat is not so pressing on their conscience when they are unmarried? Men prefer to marry older; when they have been wild and have done it all and need some "maid" to atttend to their needs! It is awful to see a lady in a relationship for years begging for that question, then when he finally asks he goes through the motions like n" now my life is ruined". i hate the perception most men have of marriage!!