Ok, so if the subject makes you queasy, turn away now...lol.
Anywho, I was wondering how open are you and your SO when it comes to the bathroom? In my house, we have an open door policy unless we have guests. We are very comfortable with each other and our bathroom habits -we feel like we have nothing to hide, and in fact we get concerned if one of us actually closes a door (whether in the bathroom or another room).
IMO, I feel like if we truly love each other and plan on being together until we are old farts, then we should be comfortable with that kind of stuff. Who knows- maybe some day one of us will be unable to take care of ourselves and thus rely on the other to do so? After my c-section, my hubby had to help me in the bathroom when it was too painful to bend over and "take care of myself."
Growing up, my mom was the complete opposite from me. She only passed gas around my sister and I (she wouldn't do it in front my my brothers or dad), and she still to this day gets up before everyone else to go poop. I just don't get it - if you love someone enough to marry them, shouldn't you feel comfortable with them seeing all aspects of you?
What's the policy in your relationship?