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Does he get mad when you cry?

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My husband does.



Short version: I absolutely love where we currently live. I love everything about it.



I absolutely hated with the fiery passion of 1000 infernos the city where we used to live before moving here.



He told me today we have to move back that god forsaken wasteland next August, we have no choice, due to his job. So, I did something I rarely, and I mean RARELY do: I burst into tears. He proceeded to get really mad at me and told me to stop crying and stop being a girl. Granted, he went on to explain to me how frustrated it made him feel when I cried, because he knew there was nothing he could do to make it better and it was really hard for him to deal with that.



Does your husband/SO get pissed off at you when you cry?
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by on Nov. 15, 2012 at 5:32 PM
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edelweiss23
by on Nov. 15, 2012 at 6:36 PM
My husband has only seem me cry once.
He was deployed when I miscarried our baby and I had to tell him. I totally broke down and was crying, he broke down and yeah. It sucked!!!
I had never seen him cry either!
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TommyAbby
by Melissa on Nov. 15, 2012 at 6:39 PM

You have my sympathy :(


Quoting ReadWriteLuv:

Oklahoma City. A place I shall now and for forever more refer to as The Red Waste.

Quoting TommyAbby:

A) my hubby will hug me and let me cry. B) where is this horrid horrid place???



metzeli
by on Nov. 15, 2012 at 6:41 PM

ah he gets really mad. but if im crying Im yelling.

bunnywzrd
by Bronze Member on Nov. 15, 2012 at 6:48 PM

He only gets upset when he can't make it better. So he isn't mad at me he is mad that he can't make it easier on me.

jenesis915
by on Nov. 15, 2012 at 6:51 PM

I haven't let him see me cry much but if he does he feel ad and depending on why I cried he'll make fun of me later about it like my first time on a plane in a haunted house lol

alexsmomaubrys2
by Silver Member on Nov. 15, 2012 at 6:52 PM

My husband holds me until I'm done and then tries to make me feel better.

alexsmomaubrys2
by Silver Member on Nov. 15, 2012 at 6:53 PM


Quoting jenesis915:

I haven't let him see me cry much but if he does he feel ad and depending on why I cried he'll make fun of me later about it like my first time on a plane in a haunted house lol

Sounds like a winner.

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jenesis915
by on Nov. 15, 2012 at 6:54 PM


Quoting alexsmomaubrys2:


Quoting jenesis915:

I haven't let him see me cry much but if he does he feel ad and depending on why I cried he'll make fun of me later about it like my first time on a plane in a haunted house lol

Sounds like a winner.

Yea it's sounds kinda ass like but now that I think of it I laugh about it to 

shadow_lark
by Silver Member on Nov. 15, 2012 at 6:55 PM
No, he hugs me and holds me until I stop.
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chasemom847
by on Nov. 15, 2012 at 7:05 PM
Quoting matthew9_22:

My husband gets mad at me too when I cry. I try not to cry in front of him because of it. All I want when I cry is for my hubby to hold me and just be there. Not fix anything. Just be there. And men don't get that.


same here
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