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Posted by on Nov. 15, 2012 at 9:41 PM
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I love him dearly. However, i led a risque lifestyle before i started dating him. I quit my lifestyle for him but he is so vanilla on everything. Everything is plain simple and i am going stir crazy. I wont cheat but im dying to be adventurous. He is also 7 years older than me and had lots of life experience. I resent him for it but dont want to leave him. My 22ndfirst birthhday was :ovember 11th and all we did was hang around the house. Please help me figure this out.
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edelweiss23
by on Nov. 15, 2012 at 9:42 PM
Tell him. Tell you want to do other things!
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racheypoo03
by on Nov. 15, 2012 at 9:43 PM
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well there was something about him, you fell in love with :)

Chansel11
by on Nov. 15, 2012 at 9:43 PM
I ve tried. :( He doesnt understand the stir crazy feeling
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lucky2Beeme
by Silver Member on Nov. 15, 2012 at 9:50 PM
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what is a 22 first birthday? tell him what you would like to do and ask him to do it with you .

Chansel11
by on Nov. 15, 2012 at 10:16 PM
Im on my phone and occasionally it throws in random words. I should have proof read before i posted and he s not willing to do anything. I want excitement and thats not his thing.
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lilcaesarsmama
by on Nov. 15, 2012 at 10:21 PM
you need to communicate with him about your needs. don't stop being yourself for anyone.
Chansel11
by on Nov. 15, 2012 at 10:24 PM
My self respect went up when i started dating him and we have a lot in common but theres stuff i want to experience . . . Just not alone
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la_bella_vita
by Bella on Nov. 15, 2012 at 10:35 PM

 Talk to him about it

MomToovey
by Marianne on Nov. 15, 2012 at 10:57 PM
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 Really sit him down and explain how you're feeling. Tell him what you told us, that there are things you want to experience but you don't want to do it alone, etc. And if he just can't seem to bring himself to do those things with you, find someone else (a friend or family member, not a new SO, that's not what I'm saying!) who will.

Chansel11
by on Nov. 15, 2012 at 11:03 PM
Thanks ladies
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