I need some advice! My boyfriend and I have been together for four years and have two children. We are talking about getting married in January, but just want a very simple thing. We were planning on just having a justice of the peace, with two witness and then planning a party when we get settled in our home and get some money saved up. What does everyone thingk about that. My mother keeps trying o make it a big thing, but right now we just don't want that. Josh has been working alot and I am in college full time, plus we are not big wedding type of people.