I'm going into my 2nd trimester and so its starting to show and I"m getting a little insecure about the weight gain. DH was involutarily released from the Navy due to downsizing in Feb and we had sex damn near every day. Well, the money they gave him was starting to run low so he started working a couple of months ago and in Sept we found out we were pregnant. We've gone from having sex every day to having sex about 4-5 times a week. Do you think that's still good. I know I'm being insecure and last night it came to a head. I wanted to have sex and he said no because he was tired. I'm sure he was because he works 10-12 hour days but it got into my head he just didn't find me attractive because of my body change. This is my 3rd but his 1st child. I just lost it and started crying and he felt awful. He said he was sorry and didn't mean to hurt my feelings, he doesn't think I'm fat, I'm pregnant, he loves me and held me until I stopped crying. Obviously, a slight hormonal over reaction lol. But I am just curious how often you and your SO have sex. Do you think 4-5 times a week is good?