I haven't been in here for a while so I thought I'd update everyone
me and the husband were separated from march til July then I decided to try giving him a second chance, well it was okay at first then he started doing things that are not okay what so ever, so I left again...
this time I'm not going back to him. He's messed me up so bad my daughters father went to hug me because I broke down one day and I jumped and started crying even harder... It's terrible.
My kids are happier now then they were so that's what matters to me. :)