I have never asked for advice on this subject even with my family. I guess part of me is hoping he will change, go back to how he was before his last deployment 2 years ago. now we never talk or when we do he just seems so angry and yells. He doesn't play with are two kids or if he does it ends with him overly upset and yelling. he seems so angry all the time. I don't know how to help him or get him to express anything. I am always wrong or upset him somehow. he just yells so much tho and never seems happy anymore! he has been overseas 7 times and the 7th time he just came back so different I have suggested him going to get help all he says is he doesn't have a problem! what should I do? does anyone have any thoughts? its like the kids and I are constantly having to walk on egg shells around him! I know its from him being overseas I just have no idea what to do next! he has never been physically abusive but he just keeps to himself its like he is here but not, am I making any sense?