I feel disconnected to my DH. He is more distant and is acting unhappy 90% of the time. A few weeks ago he started accusing me of cheating, the last week or so it has not been as bad. I try to love on him and he either just lays there or think I'm coming onto him and when I tell him I'm just trying to love on him, he gets mad. I have a low sex drive. I have been to the dr, but she was no help. Anyways, I asked him if he was unhappy yesterday and he said no, but I feel like he is. I just don't know what is going on with him. I get depressed and I am starting to be unhappy because I don't feel connected or even loved by him. What should I do?
We have been having marital problems off and on for 2 years. Last year we almost separated. He got addicted to pills and when I confronted him, he got angry and made me leave with our kids for a few days. That happened twice. And he is bad about lying. I have tried many times and in many ways to get him to stop with the lying and just tell the truth. It is hard to tell the difference anymore. It's hard not to fantasize about a man who I see in love stories. A man that's not like my DH. He was not like this when we got married, but we were young. I was 18 and he was 19. We are 22 and 23 now.
on Nov. 18, 2012 at 8:11 AM