what would you say if your dh asked you if he could go to a strip club?
My dh works 5hrs away on an oil rig. Every other week he is home. So, he stays home a week, works a week, and so on. We are married and have 2 kids and one on the way. I'm on bedrest at home and i'm going to have a baby in 2 weeks. DH texted me and asked if he can go to a strip club. How would you feel about that? What would you say or do?
I'm glad my dh is so honest with me. I let him go b/c he works hard for his family, while i'm a SAHM and i do get to spend his money while he's away. I feel that it's fair to let him do whatever he wants as long as he is open and honest about it and stay loyal and faithful. With the new addition coming and him coming home from work to do all the housework, take care of the kids and me, i feel he deserves and needs to get out and do something fun and take a break.
I did feel a little bit of anxiety about it but i'm trying not to let it get to me. He told me they offered him a lap dance but since it costs $30, he said no... ugh! He said back in the day a lap dance used to cost only $10. wow, so i'm thinking he would have done it. Even though i let him do it, it still freakin bothers me, but i'm not going to get all jealous about it. cuz he comes home to me in the end, he works hard and does everything for the kids and i.