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i have a question about sexting?? Information added to why i asked. need advice!!

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Do u think sexting is cheating if you seen that your df was sexting another girl???

Info on why I asked!

I have been with df for 3 years now and this isn't the first time. I am not a jealous person and don't mind him having girl friends as I have guy friends. I had completely trusted him. I have been having a bad feeling lately and so I went through his phone which is a first and found it in some kik messenger thing. She told him I wanna lay next to you and stick my hand in ur boxers and he said oh yeah and do what? And she replied with play with ur dik and he said he would love that.... well there was a lot more but I couldn't read it so I put his phone back down and started to cry. I am the mother to his year old twins which he did the same thing when I was pregnant except was stupid to do it on a social network that I was his friend on and he now denies that ever happening. I am pregnant with our third and feel like this is all my fault. I don't know what to do but all my trust is gone and I don't trust him on his phone anymore. He is very secretive anyways. I am afraid to tell him cause I feel I betrayed him by going through his phone but also he betrayed me and is still doing. Idk what to do and I'm super hurt. I really need advice.


Sorry for it being long,i hope it made sense and sorry if I spelt anything wrong I am mobile. I just need advice.

Thanks in advance ladies!
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by on Nov. 19, 2012 at 4:51 AM
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AlekD
by on Nov. 19, 2012 at 10:01 AM
If you have to ask if it is cheating...it probably is.
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edelweiss23
by on Nov. 19, 2012 at 10:01 AM
Yes
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amyleigh80
by on Nov. 19, 2012 at 10:02 AM

Not in the technical sense but it is extremely inappropriate and can lead to much worse.  I would be pissed off if my husband ever did that.

mamamandy420
by on Nov. 19, 2012 at 10:04 AM
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SierraLynn
by Bronze Member on Nov. 19, 2012 at 10:11 AM
Yes.
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AMDS0304
by on Nov. 19, 2012 at 10:13 AM
Yes.
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smurfy88
by Bronze Member on Nov. 19, 2012 at 10:15 AM

yes

SuperMom2433
by on Nov. 19, 2012 at 10:16 AM
This!


Quoting ReadWriteLuv:

To me it is, but I guess that is up to you. I don't have a problem with porn, or whatever, but when you take it to the point that you are actively seeking other women out, and interacting with them, it's crossed a line. 


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shadow_lark
by Silver Member on Nov. 19, 2012 at 10:17 AM
Yes
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vwd_johnson
by Bronze Member on Nov. 19, 2012 at 10:18 AM
100% yes
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