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i have a question about sexting?? Information added to why i asked. need advice!!

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Do u think sexting is cheating if you seen that your df was sexting another girl???

Info on why I asked!

I have been with df for 3 years now and this isn't the first time. I am not a jealous person and don't mind him having girl friends as I have guy friends. I had completely trusted him. I have been having a bad feeling lately and so I went through his phone which is a first and found it in some kik messenger thing. She told him I wanna lay next to you and stick my hand in ur boxers and he said oh yeah and do what? And she replied with play with ur dik and he said he would love that.... well there was a lot more but I couldn't read it so I put his phone back down and started to cry. I am the mother to his year old twins which he did the same thing when I was pregnant except was stupid to do it on a social network that I was his friend on and he now denies that ever happening. I am pregnant with our third and feel like this is all my fault. I don't know what to do but all my trust is gone and I don't trust him on his phone anymore. He is very secretive anyways. I am afraid to tell him cause I feel I betrayed him by going through his phone but also he betrayed me and is still doing. Idk what to do and I'm super hurt. I really need advice.


Sorry for it being long,i hope it made sense and sorry if I spelt anything wrong I am mobile. I just need advice.

Thanks in advance ladies!
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by on Nov. 19, 2012 at 4:51 AM
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mommieofII
by on Nov. 19, 2012 at 10:20 AM
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Um yes... He would be gone

EmmaGlenn20
by on Nov. 19, 2012 at 10:21 AM

Um...yes? lol

boricua3177
by on Nov. 19, 2012 at 10:46 AM


Quoting mommieofII:

Um yes... He would be gone


Definitely!  My DH knows that is a one way ticket out the door!

~Monica~


First time mom to Giselle (04/08/11)


 

lovebuzz_mommy
by on Nov. 19, 2012 at 10:56 AM
Yes, this has been a HUGE issue in my marriage. It makes you feel cheated so I would classify this as cheating. If a man or woman is sneaking around, hiding things, and putting energy into lying to their SO this is cheating. U don't know how bad it hurts until ur loved one does this to u. Cuz that trust u thought u had is completely gone. That's my opinion about "sexting". If u r in a committed relationship just don't do it.
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CorpCityGrl
by Bronze Member on Nov. 19, 2012 at 11:40 AM

Absolutely!

Raeann11
by Silver Member on Nov. 19, 2012 at 12:20 PM

yes

mustloveanimals
by on Nov. 19, 2012 at 12:39 PM

I totally agree with this. However, I think that sexting can be worked through provided both parties are willing to work on the marriage.

Quoting dragonwitch507:

Anything you won't do in front of your partner is cheating.


tihone77
by Bronze Member on Nov. 19, 2012 at 12:50 PM

yes it's cheating

Theaterchick
by Bronze Member on Nov. 19, 2012 at 2:10 PM
Thanks everyone
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purplejbird
by on Nov. 19, 2012 at 3:09 PM

PO- do you think it is cheating? if not then go for it!

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