I get paid once a month and my husband every 2 weeks. Most of my check goes to bills and my DH's goes to other things here and there. Rarely to bills. I got paid last week which was our sons 14th bday. My husband got paid this last Monday. I decided that I would split one payment in half and pull from my DH's paycheck to help pay for a bill so we could do some stuff for our sons b-day. This past Tuesday I realized I didn't get enough money for a bill (we don't have a banking account, we just use cash) so I took $60 out of my husbands wallet. It wasn't or personal use and I wasn't sneaking around, I just saw the discrepancy and grabbed his wallet and took what I needed. He takes out of my wallet all the time. Well the next day he got pissed at me and now won't speak to me. He said I lied and stole from him. I don't feel like I did. I don't feel like I should have to ask for permission to get money, especially if it's going to OUR bills. Am I wrong about this? Did I steal? Yea, I could have mentioned I took it, but I didn't think it was a big deal.