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My husband recently sent my an email from Bahrain saying that it was over between us and that we needed to figure out what to do with the kids. This came as a complete shock to me because we were fine and two weeks prior he emailed me telling me I was his soulmate and he didn't know what he would do without me. Now this. I've had a hard time dealing with this. I've been crying on a daily basis since and I feel like I'm falling apart. He spoke to me one time and that was forced and he told me that since we had our last child the housework has suffered, I don't cook enough, and our sex life sucked. We have 3 children together and one I had from a previous relationship before we met. I'm trying to be strong for the kids but I feel like I'm losing hope. I don't understand if he was having these feelings then why wouldnt' he bring them to me sooner, not wait six months in Bahrain and everythings like normal and then all of a sudden "Bam" It's over.
I contacted a chaplain for spiritual guidance and to have someone to talk to as I have no family and no friends here. He told me to get his command information, which I don't have and why is that relevant anyway. I'm falling apart here and contacting his command isn't going to help me right now. I need to deal with this so that I can move on with my life becuae apparently he has already. No emails, no calls, nothing. He won't even talk to me about what bills need to be paid or how much money he's going to need over there. He just takes whatever with no thought as to what I need to keep the household going.
The bottom line is that I reached out for help, councelling for myself, anything to make this blow lighter and I've gotten nothing.
I just don't know what to do anymore.....