hii, my name is brandy. i am 28 weeks pregnant. i am living with my babys father, but we are not married. i was just wondering if any of you would let your partner go out to parties alone because you were too tired or in pain. i feel like i am trying to control his life by telling him no, but deep down it kills me that he would rather go out and party with his friends that'll always be there than try and comfort me. since becoming pregnant, i dont care too much for being around smoke or alcohol because it makes me sick. also i basically lost all my friends because im just not in the mood to party and stuf like i used to, so i feel completely alone. am i being too needy? please help me.