I stay at home with our kids. Once a week I take care of bills and payroll for hubby and his dads shop. His dad signs all checks. Well, his dad gave us Xmas bonuses. I got $500 and hubby got $1000. Now, I get paid VERY little ($30/wk) so Im not really able to contribute to our bills and such but when I can, I help. I usually just get an advance to help out. Anyhow, hubby makes $600/wk. Every week. Well, with my Xmas bonus I paid our electric and gas, as well as pit gas in hubbys car. I also got my half of our daughters Xmas gift. I still need to get hubbys and our sons Xmas. I let him know the elec and gas were taken care of and all that's left is the phone payment. He asked when that was due. Since he asked me a few weeks ago if I would make a payment arrangement on that bill I set it up to be paid by the 17th of this month. Well he has yet to make a payment so he is going to owe the full amt plus the current bill that will be due by the 21st. Our bill runs about 250/month. Now he's upset that he has to take care of the phone bill by himself. Well, if you would have made some small payments you wouldn't be in this mess. If I would have had the funds I would help out but seeing as I dont and took care of what I could Im pretty much low on funds and need what I have left for Xmas.
Am I wrong for feeling so frustrated? I feel like Im not wrong because I dont get paid much at all and he gets paid every week plus this nice Xmas bonus he got.