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For better or for worse?

Posted by on Dec. 8, 2012 at 10:08 PM
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Question: Which would you be more hurt over?

Options:

cheating with an ex

cheating with someone new/just met


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Not saying I'm gonna do this, but would you say its worse to cheat on your spouse with an ex or someone you've just met?

Btw I don't cheat, just something that had come up and was curious what the other ladies thought about it.
by on Dec. 8, 2012 at 10:08 PM
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pittymama
by Silver Member on Dec. 8, 2012 at 10:10 PM
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i voted cheating with an ex. i talked to my ex before Dh and i got married and when he found out, it hurt him A LOT. he told me it hurt him more to know i talked to someone that i once loved (not like i love my dh obviously) then someone i had just met. i would think the same about cheating. it would hurt me a lot more if Dh went back to his ex as opposed to a random person with whom he never had real feelings for and just had sex with. 

Megan11587
by Megan on Dec. 8, 2012 at 10:12 PM
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I don't think one is worse than the other. They are both bad.

januarybabies
by on Dec. 8, 2012 at 10:15 PM
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I agree.
Cheating in general is very hurtful, but I think it cuts deeper when there is a history between the two.
givenshl
by on Dec. 8, 2012 at 10:42 PM
Both
la_bella_vita
by Bella on Dec. 8, 2012 at 11:55 PM

 Cheating with an ex but both would be hurtful. My husband actually does not have an ex

AlekD
by on Dec. 8, 2012 at 11:59 PM
I don't think there are degrees of horribleness when it comes to cheating.

And I should know...I have a Phd in horribleness.
*waits for someone to get the reference*
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ashleigh24
by on Dec. 9, 2012 at 12:03 AM
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I think cheating with an ex because then it is a lot more likely to happen again. Obviously if they aren't over them then they need to go be with them and stop playing games. I would never go be with any of my exes but I do say that if my hubby and I don't stay together (we are separating for a little bit) that I would never have another real relationship because he has my heart. I truly believe once you find that certain someone then I won't be able to give my heart to anyone else. It wouldn't be fair to them. We have other problems but we both love each other very much. Difficult situation.
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JennPearce
by Jenn! on Dec. 9, 2012 at 6:29 AM
The ex would be way worse but both are equally upsetting.
AlannaMaria
by Alanna on Dec. 9, 2012 at 8:13 AM
Either one would be really bad to me.
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Megan11587
by Megan on Dec. 9, 2012 at 8:22 AM

 My husband doesn't either.

Quoting la_bella_vita:

 Cheating with an ex but both would be hurtful. My husband actually does not have an ex

 

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