Need advice from those who have been with DH/SO for 10 or more years.
DH an I have hit another tough spot. We have been together for almost 9 years. We had a hard core fight, he spent a few days with his mother, I said he could come home because his family was causing even more drama but I wasnt ready. Needless to say Im stuck. I told him Im not ready an not sure how I feel just yet. I do love him but the way he treated me made me hurt an scared. (he was drunk, I wanted to leave, I packed my things an went to get the kids an he kept pushing me down, he called the cops went to jail an is now going to get help by him self) Its not just what happened its more then that. We are unhappy were we live. He is working on getting a really good job but that has been put on hold due to court an all that follows it. We where planning on moving soon to. I love him but Im not happy an I dont feel all lovely to him. What can I do? How can I get pass this. Whats a good way to add "wood" to the fire.