He gave me a ring and says "this is what you have wanted isnt it?"
The bf gave me an absolutely beautiful diamond ring yesterday. It was totally unexpected. When I opened it he said "thats what you have been wanting isnt it?" So what do I take this ring as....I wanted to be engaged.
Rosepetal, what's your intention with this post? Do you want congratulations? I don't get it.
i don't get it either.... she is left wondering his intentions yet she doesn't ask him ? good way to enter a marriage right...
Quoting unsuspected:
Rosepetal, what's your intention with this post? Do you want congratulations? I don't get it.
Yup, that was my first thought. Why would you want to marry someone you can't talk to?
Quoting Fairegirl33:i don't get it either.... she is left wondering his intentions yet she doesn't ask him ? good way to enter a marriage right...
Quoting unsuspected:
Rosepetal, what's your intention with this post? Do you want congratulations? I don't get it.
Aren't promise rings something that high school kids do?
and she makes it seem like Oh no biggie neither of us are romantics... well go ask him then !!
i thought an engagement ring was a promise ring for adults ??? lolol
Quoting unsuspected:
Yup, that was my first thought. Why would you want to marry someone you can't talk to?
Quoting Fairegirl33:
i don't get it either.... she is left wondering his intentions yet she doesn't ask him ? good way to enter a marriage right...
Quoting unsuspected:
Rosepetal, what's your intention with this post? Do you want congratulations? I don't get it.
My husband and I will be celebrating our ten year anniversary this week. He gave me a promise ring when we were kids, like a year before we got married. We were married young. I think as an adult I would have to clue what to make of it if my guy gave me a 'prmise ring', lol!
Quoting danandsamsmom:Aren't promise rings something that high school kids do?
Happy Anniversary! Yeah, I understand it for very young people. I was 27 when I got engaged...if my DH would have said it was a promise ring, I would have thought that he was kidding!
Quoting unsuspected:
My husband and I will be celebrating our ten year anniversary this week. He gave me a promise ring when we were kids, like a year before we got married. We were married young. I think as an adult I would have to clue what to make of it if my guy gave me a 'prmise ring', lol!
Quoting danandsamsmom:
Aren't promise rings something that high school kids do?
that's whar i thought too. if you're old enough to be married, then what's the point of a promise ring?
Quoting danandsamsmom:Aren't promise rings something that high school kids do?
Ever feel like you never see your bf/husband and need to beg for him to do something with you?
The bf and I are on different work schedules and days off. For example last nite I saw him for a couple hours, would have been more but he was tired and in a mood and only giving one word answers so I got tired of that shit. I went in the bedroom. Would have had more time together but every week on his days off he has one day that he just doesnt say anything to me except one words and when I get up and go in another room he will follow me to just be with me. I feel like I havent had any time with him. WE either get days like yesterday, he spends Wed. nites on the phone with his mother and brother while I am just sitting in his apartment. Saturdays we dont do much. This saturday he just wanted to scrub his kitchen spotless. I asked him if we could do something tonite....and of course no answer. Ever feel like you never see your SO and need to almost beg for him to do something with you...
So along with not being able to talk to him, you have to beg to have him spend time with you??
i didn't see this post. op why would you want to marry someone who doesn't want to spend time with you?
Quoting TommyAbby:
Ever feel like you never see your bf/husband and need to beg for him to do something with you?
The bf and I are on different work schedules and days off. For example last nite I saw him for a couple hours, would have been more but he was tired and in a mood and only giving one word answers so I got tired of that shit. I went in the bedroom. Would have had more time together but every week on his days off he has one day that he just doesnt say anything to me except one words and when I get up and go in another room he will follow me to just be with me. I feel like I havent had any time with him. WE either get days like yesterday, he spends Wed. nites on the phone with his mother and brother while I am just sitting in his apartment. Saturdays we dont do much. This saturday he just wanted to scrub his kitchen spotless. I asked him if we could do something tonite....and of course no answer. Ever feel like you never see your SO and need to almost beg for him to do something with you...
So along with not being able to talk to him, you have to beg to have him spend time with you??
When you met your dh/so?
- RosePetals4321
on Dec. 26, 2012 at 9:25 AM