My son came down with the flu christams eve, hes 3. I spent a week, carening for him, cleaning up his vomit, and boogers, plus taking care of my 2 month old daughter, and all the other household duties. None of this was a problem, UNTIL, my SO got "sick" too. He has no fever, no cough, no cold. No real sign of being "so sick". He would just complain about everything and said he couldnt help because he was sick. Still I was fine with that, maybe a little frustrated, but not mad. THEN since yesturday, I have felt like crap too, I do have afever, and cough, and throwing up, plus its that "time of the month" so its like double sick. No big deal, im a mom, i suck it up, i do whats got to be done. He sleeps until one in the afternoon, still no real symptoms of being sick, and he yells at me for everything! I sware i just want to scream! when I try and stand up for myself, he goes on about hes sick and cranky. Asshole im so sick and so pissed i could strangle a kitten! (not really, but you get my point)
My mom always warned me, "Never tell a man you or the kids are sick, cause they'll automatically be sick too" WOW am I learning how true this is. this is just ridiculous!!!!!!!!! All I want is some respect, if he woke upand was nice i'd have no problem taking care of him (even though i dont beleive he is really sick) even though i am. But how dare you treat me like shit whenIm taking care of everything while you sleep and play video games!!!!