Do you let him?
We have a traditional Christian Faith based Marriage; yes this involves Biblical Submission -not discipline like the weird website everyone likes to put up... I've seen the site every time I've used the words Christian and Marriage together. It's gotten old explaining that I don't understand what good spanking me does unless you're trying to get me off, or piss me off. Neither were the intentions of that website I think.
So back to my question. When he leads, whether it's taking charge of an activity or a "teaching moment" do you let him?
When I say a Teaching Moment, I mean the times he decides to explain the value of washing the tires first on the car, or working your triceps with your elbows together or the dangers of deep diving and nitrogen narcosis... or any other thing of the moment. Warm up the car for five minutes... Don't bargain from a position of weakness... the difference between us and them is training and if you were looking for easy, you should have stayed in bed... lol