Since then he has not been the same. He will not say anything to me about it at all. The only reason I know what I just told you is because my MIL told me that's what he said. He is not the sweet lover of mine he is a total asshole. He has become very secretive of everything he does everyone he talks to. I try so hard to be happy all the time, to not ask questions and to just let him be but its killing me. He is hiding something from me and I'm falling apart. He got a new phone out a lock on it, changed his password, goes outside to talk to everyone or ignores every call/txt when he is with me ALWAYS has his phone face down and if he checks it he always turns so that I can never see the front of his phone. He sucks at hiding things from me and he is so odviouse about about it. I'm dying inside, I'm losing my fucking mind. I have not said anything to him because if I do he is going to explod on me. The first time I brought it up he flipped a gasket last time I almost touched his phone he damn near had a heart attack. I'm not sure how much longer I can keep my mouth shut before I go insane and lose it.
I just wanna scream
He was just sitting here reading a txt about 10 mins ago and started crying but tried to hide it from me I asked him if he was ok and he said yes I'm fine nothing is wrong. (With tears in his eyes) Then said I will be better if you get me a beer baby? As I walked away to get him one he wiped the years from his eyes.
Well, eventually you are going to have to ask him what is going on, and inevitably he is going to blow a gasket about it, so rather than stew about it and drive yourself nuts wondering what is going on, just confront him and get it over with.
Quoting ReadWriteLuv:Well, eventually you are going to have to ask him what is going on, and inevitably he is going to blow a gasket about it, so rather than stew about it and drive yourself nuts wondering what is going on, just confront him and get it over with.
Ok, you said you did it once and he blew up. Then, you stated that you wanted to do it again but were afraid he'd just blow up again. So, go back in for another try, and let him blow up again.
Quoting Ruffnekwife87:
I already have once and he is still doing it
Quoting ReadWriteLuv:Well, eventually you are going to have to ask him what is going on, and inevitably he is going to blow a gasket about it, so rather than stew about it and drive yourself nuts wondering what is going on, just confront him and get it over with.
Wait, wait, wait, wait. Were you the one who had the husband with the sick Dad and were concerned that the husband was getting too close with the Dad's nurse?
So he loss his father but you are thinking he's cheating? I don't understand? Maybe you should try to say I know you are hurt,but when you're ready please talk to me! Nope he shouldn't take things out on you! We all grieve differently! My dad passed away 3yrs. ago I am still grieving!
Quoting ReadWriteLuv:Wait, wait, wait, wait. Were you the one who had the husband with the sick Dad and were concerned that the husband was getting too close with the Dad's nurse?
Quoting Hottmomma607:So he loss his father but you are thinking he's cheating? I don't understand? Maybe you should try to say I know you are hurt,but when you're ready please talk to me! Nope he shouldn't take things out on you! We all grieve differently! My dad passed away 3yrs. ago I am still grieving!
Give him time
Quoting Ruffnekwife87:
I don't think he is cheating I think he is talking to people he knows I would be pissed about. Or talking to his friends about things I wish he would talk to me about but won't. He was just sitting here reading a txt about 10 mins ago and started crying but tried to hide it from me
Quoting Hottmomma607:So he loss his father but you are thinking he's cheating? I don't understand? Maybe you should try to say I know you are hurt,but when you're ready please talk to me! Nope he shouldn't take things out on you! We all grieve differently! My dad passed away 3yrs. ago I am still grieving!
Its always gotta be about him. kinda long
- Ruffnekwife87
on Jan. 14, 2013 at 11:52 PM