No because the kids will see it and feel it. You want to teach your children to grow up and be happy. Children learn more by example than words.
I don't believe that falling out of love is a good enough reason for a divorce. Love is work. You have to work at staying in love with your partner and to fall back in love with him when times get tough. Butterflies don't last forever and that is a good thing!!
I've been married to my husband for 10 years and our love for each other has been strained at times but we worked together to bring it back and we are happier then ever. =D
Yes I would stay in a marriage but it would be because I believe that a couple can fall back in love.
This is a hard one for me to answer. Love is a choice. As long as my DH and I choose to love each other, there will be love. If we don't love each other anymore, it's because we've chosen that. If you're unable to just up and choose to love again, maybe find out what changed. What made you decide not to love? How can it be fixed? Sometimes it may take the help of a counselor, but in any case, as long as both parties are willing to make the relationship work, it absolutely will. And then the love is back and there's nothing to worry about.
No. I would give it time because marriage has highs and lows but if i was certain the love was gone then no i wouldnt.
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