Don't let him back. Seriously, he's done this so many times before, why keep setting yourself up like that? Just tell him no and that you're happy with someone else.
I have been in your shoes girl. Honestly, I would stay romantically involved with your new man and allow your baby's father to be just that, a father. Nothing more, you have a man for you, who is also a secondary father figure to your children. If everything is perfect, do not mess it up, expecially if it will upset/hurt your children.
Personally I would not take him back, look at his track record. He comes and goes when he pleases and he does it because you allow him too. I dated a guy like this and he only came back when he wanted sex and after i got pregnant he left again. After i gave the baby up he asked why and wanted to come back again. Heck no. I know this guys MO he is no good honey. The other guy sounds like he really loves you and your kids and i would still with him. Tell the Ex to shove off, he is only using you and if your kids don't like him then theres your answer. Kids come first and if they don't want him then you shouldn't either because obviously they see his true nature better then you do. Listen to your kids, move on.
He's already done it twice before, there's nothing stopping him from doing it again. And as another mom mentioned, if your kids are unhappy with your decision, they need to come first - after all, they've been there for you and he hasn't. Sometimes the right choice is the harder one, but you know what you need to do.
That's kind of what I was thinking too
Quoting mamanay041010:
The man of your dreams wouldn't have left you and toyed with you constantly...unless you're into nightmares.. you'll throw away something good for a man child who only comes around sometimes..hebis going to come in ruin a family and leave again.
Dh and my argument today made me so mad, and realized he is lazy
- Angeleyes_6
on Jan. 18, 2013 at 2:15 PM