Like I said in my post the other day, times are hard for us. I don't have a job and DH has a crappy job at Walmart. Well a job oppurtunity may be in the future but here's the clencher....we'd have to move to Texas. It's with a company my FIL works for, he is more than likely going to transfer-he also hasn't quite made up his mind. It will have great benefits and between $20-30 an hour. It's practically a guaranteed job on a silver platter for both DH and FIL. And the man who runs this company has a wife who runs another company so I would probably get a job handed to me. The company my MIL works for has a facility in Texas so she'd be able to transfer or if she wants, work for this man's wife.
I am torn. It'd be a great oppurtunity for DH to make a lot of money, me get a job, and we get on our feet. But that means me relocating from all I've ever known. All DH has is his parents. I'd be leaving behind my mom, my twin, my younger sister, my grandparents and my nieces and nephew. I would be leaving everything I've ever known behind and that makes me sad. I don't know if I can be away from my family. I know sometimes people have to do things they do not want to do and this looks like a great deal and all but I am so torn! My inlaws said it'll only be roughly an 8-9 hour drive from where we live and I can visit my family on weekends. But since I live on family land (both sisters, my mom and my grandparent are my neighbors) and I am so used to seeing them daily. I also don't want my DD to miss out on her maternal family. Gah! I don't know what to do. Me and DH discussed it lightly but it wasn't a good time so we decided to talk about it some more later.