I'm not trying to be innappropriate, I really want to know if I'm the only one....I HATE when DH wants oral sex. I avoid it at all costs, and get mad when he pushes me to do it. Does that make me a bad wife? (According to him it does). Does it make me selfish? What are your thoughts on the subject?
I am the same. I hate doing it and dread the moment my dh says anything about it. He says the reason we dont have sex is because I wont. He tells me that I have to give in order to get.
Quoting babybugsmomma:I am the same. I hate doing it and dread the moment my dh says anything about it. He says the reason we dont have sex is because I wont. He tells me that I have to give in order to get.
Ugh! Sounds familiar....
Quoting MixedCooke:I have stopped doing it altogether. I gues for me when i was in my 20s and still experimenting, etc. , it was no big deal but as a Mother, it just doesnt feel appropriate anymore. Plus I just think of health reasons that I am going to be down there and then kissing my kids on the face, just seems wrong to me. I guess I am getting more prude-ish as I age. : /
This is exactly how I feel about it.
Quoting DKk0531:
Have you mentioned to him you dont like it? Its not my fav thing to do, i dont like it and dh knows. I might do it once in awhile but dh doesnt force it at all. Sounds like you should mention you really dont like doing it
I dont like doing it either. I know DH wants it more but I just dont like it. I will do it once in a while just before having sex. Not just to do that act in itself.
him pushing you to do it though isn't right. He should be happy with everything else rather than focusing on that one particular thing. Find a medium is the only thing I can suggest.
You're gonna get ladies that tell you you are .... Don't listen to that crap!
Quoting Taynhannahsmom:
No it doesn't make you a bad wife. Nothing wrong with not liking oral. It's not for everyone.
When you met your dh/so?
- msbusychild
on Jan. 21, 2013 at 11:28 PM