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Hubby with a provocative FB page.

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I have never been comfortable with the idea of owning a facebook account and for good reasons. My hb is a very loving, kind, giving man. Any woman would be lucky to have a man like him. Well, that was my thinking until I discovered that my FB fears are true, even with my loving hb. He own a FB full of women with big butties and there is dirty talk all over it. Well, I couldn't resist and one time I went through the comments to see what he says to these ppl. To my surprise he is not responding at all, he just reads what they say and looks at the picks the women send. Its not all women that send statuses to this account but its just a shock that my loving man is up to all this.. What does a woman say in all this????

by on Jan. 24, 2013 at 2:27 AM
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Serenity7
by Platinum Member on Jan. 24, 2013 at 4:21 PM

 What do you want to say to your husband

RheaF
by Silver Member on Jan. 24, 2013 at 4:24 PM
I would be pissed! DH and I both have FB accounts. However we trust each other, and share the same friends. It sounds like you have a good reason not to trust him. You guys need to really discuss your relationship and figure out what to do now.
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DieMyDarling
by on Jan. 24, 2013 at 4:27 PM
It's wack. Porn isn't personal...interacting with real women...even if he's not responding...it's not cool.
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jenC1978
by Member on Jan. 24, 2013 at 4:30 PM
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It's completely inappropriate.  I would tell him either he deletes his fb page or we are going to have serious problems and I would mean it too. 

lapcounter
by Gold Member on Jan. 24, 2013 at 4:34 PM
I have no clue what you are talking about.
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MomToovey
by Marianne on Jan. 24, 2013 at 10:04 PM
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 The thing that stuck with me the most while reading this post is that he doesn't reply to any of these women. While I would certainly be offended that my DH's facebook is full of provocative women and racy messages, the fact that he's not playing along has to mean something.

However, if you've talked with him and let him know how this account makes you feel and he still continues to go through with it, that's being disrespectful. That's when he needs to do some re-evaluating and decide which is more important to him, this fake life on the internet, or his real one.

CutieCrab
by Bronze Member on Jan. 25, 2013 at 10:23 AM

 Kicking him out is a bit extreme..

Jessiejem
by on Jan. 25, 2013 at 11:08 AM

very strange , Why not look at big butties online , why the fb account ?

Monsita
by Silver Member on Jan. 25, 2013 at 11:13 AM

Please, talk to him abou it....tell him very calmed and firm what you really think of all of this!!!!

mustloveanimals
by on Jan. 25, 2013 at 11:19 AM

I think it is completely inappropriate for him to have an account/behave that way, and it sounds like he did so behind your back. You both need to talk and come to some sort of understanding/agreement on this. However, making him leave the province seems a bit extreme, doesn't it?

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