I have never been comfortable with the idea of owning a facebook account and for good reasons. My hb is a very loving, kind, giving man. Any woman would be lucky to have a man like him. Well, that was my thinking until I discovered that my FB fears are true, even with my loving hb. He own a FB full of women with big butties and there is dirty talk all over it. Well, I couldn't resist and one time I went through the comments to see what he says to these ppl. To my surprise he is not responding at all, he just reads what they say and looks at the picks the women send. Its not all women that send statuses to this account but its just a shock that my loving man is up to all this.. What does a woman say in all this????
The thing that stuck with me the most while reading this post is that he doesn't reply to any of these women. While I would certainly be offended that my DH's facebook is full of provocative women and racy messages, the fact that he's not playing along has to mean something.
However, if you've talked with him and let him know how this account makes you feel and he still continues to go through with it, that's being disrespectful. That's when he needs to do some re-evaluating and decide which is more important to him, this fake life on the internet, or his real one.
Please, talk to him abou it....tell him very calmed and firm what you really think of all of this!!!!
I think it is completely inappropriate for him to have an account/behave that way, and it sounds like he did so behind your back. You both need to talk and come to some sort of understanding/agreement on this. However, making him leave the province seems a bit extreme, doesn't it?
When you met your dh/so?
- phegal
on Jan. 24, 2013 at 2:27 AM