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Communication with husband

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One night I sat on the couch in my t-shirt and undies.  My husband informed me I was gross and he cannot sit on the couch unless there is a blanket on it.  He has to clean it before he can sit on it.  I blew up and he was being disrespectful to me.  He said I was overreacting.  Was I wrong?  

We struggle with communication.  I have asked him to see a family counselor before it is too late.  He refuses to go, because we do not need it.


by on Jan. 25, 2013 at 8:51 PM
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Lorena
by Silver Member on Jan. 25, 2013 at 10:41 PM
Was it even about you? Could he have been complaining about crumBS or a stain?
If it was about you thats messed up. If I ever sat on the couch in a t shirt and panties dh would think it was go time and not care about anything else.
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PartyGalAnne
by on Jan. 25, 2013 at 11:51 PM

This alone can not be the reason for seeking counseling. Fill us in with the rest of the story.

C.Fleury
by on Jan. 26, 2013 at 12:09 AM
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So your not allowed to sit on the couch in your underwear ?! WTF ? Dude has issues. Or something deep seeded and every little thing he blows up over. Have to find the root of the real issue. Sounds like counseling is in the very near future
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pittymama
by Silver Member on Jan. 26, 2013 at 12:38 AM

wait.. what? 

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