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how long should you be ina relationship before you marry ???

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 So I have been in a relationship for 5 years and I always felt we should at least be engaged or something idk so what so y'all think? How long where you together before you got married/engaged?

by on Jan. 26, 2013 at 12:41 AM
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StrawberryCool
by on Jan. 28, 2013 at 10:24 PM
We were back together for a month before we got engaged.

But weve known since we were 16/17 we were gonna get married
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k_cook12
by on Jan. 29, 2013 at 9:14 AM
Me and my husband were together 7 months before we got engaged and then we were engaged for a year and a month before we got married.
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aimesnyc
by Amy on Jan. 29, 2013 at 9:19 AM

I don't think there is a set amount of time -just when you know each other well, and after you have discussed what you both want in life - marriage, kids, etc.  If you are not comfortable discussing these important things, than you are not ready to get married and spend the rest of your life together.

AleaKat
by on Jan. 29, 2013 at 9:21 AM
2 years before we got engaged.

I think anything under 1 year is way too fast!
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Supermommyof423
by Bronze Member on Jan. 29, 2013 at 1:12 PM
My hubby and i met in November of 2008 and were married July 18, 2009. Only you and your partner can decide when you are ready. I know a couple that married two weeks after meeting each other. Last Thursday they welcomed their first grandchild. Believe it or not they are still married after 50 years together.
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