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So I'm like 8 days postpartum, and I'm *slightly* hormonal- but I need to know if I'm right in feeling this way.



Hubby told me that he was going to bed, I was going to stay up and clean and pump more milk for the Squeak. I picked up laundry from the living room to take to the hamper and walk past the bedroom door and lo and be-freaking-hold- he's watching porn. For whatever reason my heart dropped into my stomach and I felt hurt. He's not even affectionate with me, and though I've offered to do things with him, he'd rather watch porn. I- being immature and bitchy- opened the door to get the things I need to shower and he deer in the headlight looked at me. I was like "bad timing" (knowing what Id seen) and he was like nope, just playing on my phone.



My feelings are hurt. I feel betrayed. I childishly sent him a text and said that said that he didn't have to lie to me and all, but my feelings are still hurt.





What the hell is wrong with me?
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by on Jan. 26, 2013 at 3:17 AM
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by Member on Jan. 26, 2013 at 4:35 PM
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We were seperated, so it's not an affair technically.

And I appreciate your honesty


Quoting ReadWriteLuv:

Um, ok, this is going to be very blunt, so if anyone is squeamish, move on.

After only 8 days your vagina is a still a large, stretched out gaping hole. That in combo with your hormone fluctuations which could leave you dry as a bone would not make for the most fulfilling of sexual experiences with him.

Did he watch the birth, with this one or your previous one? Some men freak out after watching a woman push a baby through and it kills their sex drive for a while. That could be a problem too. 

And you cheated on him previously? You guys have much larger issues here. I think it's kind of hypocritical to say that you felt like he was "cheating" by looking at porn when you actually put someone else's penis into your body. 



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