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In your honest opinion how do you feel about open marriage? There was a episode on Ricki Lake the other day and I'm still amazed. *On the open marriage aspect I think I should let it be known that these people were already married for about 12 yrs before they started having a open marriage. At that point they had 3 kids and didn't want to get divorced.*

Also would any of you swing with your husband or have a threesome?

I know these are personal questions so if you don't feel comfortable answering feel free to inbox me.

by on Jan. 26, 2013 at 9:58 AM
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fallenangel7386
by on Jan. 29, 2013 at 12:01 AM
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Ummm not for me. I couldnt do that. 

tharealty2
by on Jan. 29, 2013 at 1:36 AM
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I think its ignorant, and will typically lead to divorce.  I would not swing or have a threesome, imo thats inviting trouble into your marriage and you will get enough with out an open invite as it is.

kimmiewendy
by on Jan. 29, 2013 at 2:05 AM
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I could never do anything like that.  My husband and I both agreed that if we were ever with someone else sexually then we would be over.  

baileymarie723
by Silver Member on Jan. 29, 2013 at 2:55 PM
I am selfish with my husband. I could never have an open marriage, have a threesome, or be swingers. For me it would feel to much like cheating, and cheating is a deal breaker for me.
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dustykitty
by on Jan. 29, 2013 at 4:48 PM
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Personally I am not into an open marriage.  Like another mom said, I don't like sharing my husband.  Threesomes conversations have come between him and I.  That is a fanstatsy.

sydjademom24
by Rachel J on Jan. 29, 2013 at 5:07 PM
I would never have open marriage, and never swing. I would consider bringing another woman into the bedroom, but I would have to develop a relationship with this woman first. I couldn't just meet her at a bar and ask her home. Plus I would be really picky and I wouldn't want any touching between her and my husband. Just me and her and me and my husband. So because of all that I don't think it will ever happen but I am open to it.
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cc1016
by on Jan. 29, 2013 at 7:44 PM

No and No!

Raveyk
by on Jan. 29, 2013 at 11:12 PM
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An "open marriage is not a marriage at all. It is a shell of what either used to be or never was truly a marriage. Now, This is just my opinion, I am not talking trash about people who chose that life style....their life and views of things are clearly different than my own but as far as what I personally feel, I could never do that. I love my husband far too much and could not bare to do anything like that.  blech

kralik12
by on Jan. 30, 2013 at 12:04 AM
No
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StrawberryCool
by on Jan. 30, 2013 at 12:06 AM
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I watched that episode.

And those women are so damn blind sided if they think that this helped their marriages and that there was/is nothing missing in their relationships.

If my husband ever came to me and said he wanted an open marriage id be at that court house quicker then yoy can think!!!!!
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