"well yes I understand we haven't been making payments. Well yes I understand we are behind. Well ok what's the past due? What's the minimum payment? What's the total? "
Then she looked at her husband and said can we afford this payment today? And he shook his head no. I felt sort of bad. But then again I was like WTH why would you finance something when you could have saved up and paid it off kwim?
So there they stood helpless. About to be sued over a ring!
ETA It isn't so much of a judgment as it is an overall expectation of mine, pay cash vs finance. This is a perfect reason why. Like I said I felt bad but then I realized they financed it knowing they couldn't afford it because unlike the few women here most people finance things because they can't afford them. Not a judgment, fact!