My husband is a non confrontational person to the point that he goes out of his way to make other people outside our household happy and doesn't give a rats a** how it makes me feel and I am a confrontational person I guess you would say. I tell it like it is to my husband and anyone else..I have ALWAYS told it like it was and I know and I have said this 1000 times that it is NOT always a good thing to do. How do we survive and come to a happy medium? We are driving each other up the wall. We have been together 16 yrs but it wasn't like this for the first 5 years. He use to not only stand up for himself but for his family as well. He now talks about people behind their back but acts like their best friend in front of their face. Or tells me one thing and does totally the opposite.
on Jan. 27, 2013 at 12:29 AM