So me and my DH have been together for 3 1/2 years, married for 2 months. Before we got married, up until I'd say about a year ago we had a very passionate relationship. During that year we almost called off the wedding about two different times, we were fighting ALL the time about everything. It got so bad that I ended up leaving and spending the night in a hotel because we couldn't stop attacking each other. (Not physically he would never lay 1 finger on me.) We ended up going to pre martial counseling and our relationship got a lot better.
Now we don't fight as much, I mean we have our disagreements every now & then but eh no big deal. Well my W2's came into today and my DH saw how much money I made last year. I honestly thought it was less than what it was but whatever...anyway I'm starting to think my DH resents this a lot. He has three kids from a previous who he has to pay child support for, so his income is pretty tight. He used to work at the same I place I have been at for almost 5 years. This has also hindered us from trying to have a baby of our own. He doesn't want to start trying until he makes a certain amount of money. I have always shared everything with him. He has access to all my bank accounts, he's the beneficiary on my life insurance policy. If his children need something I happily will pay for it because to me its just money, and I would say that even if I made 7.00/hr (which at one point I have.)
How did you other ladies deal with something like this?