so last night I got onto my laptop which dh had used last week while his was in repair. I went to open my e mailmail and it was logged in to his account and open to a msg from a dating web site. I have never not trusted him but my curiosity go the best of me I opened it and was stunned. he has had the account for months and has numerous contact with girls looking for "intimate encounters". I'm non confrontational but this is a problem...how do I go from here?
print out what you found and give it to him. Then ask him how soon he can pack and leave ?
First be positive it isn't spam. I know if you look at my email I'm banging women like crazy and I have a tiny penis. lol If it's not spam I'm all for being upfront about it. I found this, have you slept with anyone? Will you go to counseling with me or do you want a divorce because I'm not the sharing kind.
I was hoping it was but there were several pics he had downloaded and a history of msgs...I am so in shock still
Quoting furbabymum:First be positive it isn't spam. I know if you look at my email I'm banging women like crazy and I have a tiny penis. lol If it's not spam I'm all for being upfront about it. I found this, have you slept with anyone? Will you go to counseling with me or do you want a divorce because I'm not the sharing kind.
someone else, told me to make a fake account and contact him but I feel that lowers me to his level. plus I don't know if I want the answers that would give me
I would suggest to find out if he already met someone, in that case your heath is imp. u are going to need STD testing. Also be prepared for him to turn this to you, "u had no business looking at my email!!" its just the way to b defencive. Confront but be calm, use simple words make it as confortable as possible for him. Dont expect too much, u might have to continue investigating, this never stops at first...Ive been thru that.
do u like kissing still?
- ashtayk
on Jan. 27, 2013 at 2:32 PM