Here's my Issue. I LOVE my Husband. I enjoy sex, I really do but My husband is the kind of man who could seriously do it 3 times a day. He asks for it every day and not just once. All of our kids go to school so he wants it during the day and then will try again at night. Honestly I would have no problems doing it every day if it didn't take 1 1/2 to 2 hours each time! I'm really quick 15-30 minutes is about all I really need. If he could do it in half an hour we'd do it every day even twice a day sometimes but IMO 2 hours is just to long. sometimes I feel like we are opposite sides of sexual stereotype. usually the man is done to fast for the woman but it's the opposite for us. I am just wondering am I alone? Sometimes I feel like I am not good enough in bed and that's why it takes so long. He tells me that is not the issue. I try not to get fustrated during because it just makes it worse. but if we go to bed at 10 and now it's 11:30 and I'm tired because I have been up since 6:30 that morning and have to get up tomorrow morning at 6:30 and that's only 7 hours away and I'm not sleeping yet. It's fustrating not enjoying. anyone else have these issues?
BTW we are both 31 years old.
ADDED ON: I should add that we do not do it as often as he asks. I cannot handle that much but it's a big conflict for us because he does not think it's asking to much. I am good with once or twice a week. It's usually more like 4 or 5 times a week. My dh works from home and I am a SAHM so we are both here without kids From 8am-2pm. The more we do it the longer it takes. When we've gone like 4 days without it is usually the days it only takes 1 hour to an hour and a half. but If we do it twice in one day it's 2 hours both times! Sometimes he gets fustrated too and we will just stop because he knows how much it bothers me.