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Posted by on Jan. 28, 2013 at 2:47 PM
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1st off i dont like porn, i dont like the fact that my man gets off by looking at other women. i know he looks at porn. but i told him to keep it private & dnt let me find out. well today i gt on his laptop to do things & i was going totake pix with my daughter with webcam, i ran by a file that looked odd clicked it & it was a username & password for brazzers.com it made me mad because first of all you have to pay for it, we are having money trouble as it is, why waste 40.00 a month when he can be buying diapers or any house or baby needs.!! im so upset like why cant he watch free ones, i wouldnt even be mad if thats what i found. but this is awful!! idk how to even talk to him about it, cuz he going to think im snooping around in his stuff & think i dont trust him, or he going to say you said porn is okay as lomg as i keep it private, or some shit like that, we havent been fighting lately just happy and idk if i should just keep to myself and keep this no fighting happy relationship, or ruin it by bringing this up?

by on Jan. 28, 2013 at 2:47 PM
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MagicTemptation
by Christina on Jan. 28, 2013 at 3:06 PM

Maybe you should of been more clear on what you wanted. You told him porn was ok as long as he kept it private. You saw a file on his computer and got curious and opened. Your the one that opened pandora's box. Im not trying to sound mean, but it's true. 

Do you know that he is still paying for that account? He could of done it for one month. Some sites have free trial offers or different levels of payment... 

Apologize for opening his file. And tell him your not comfortable with him paying for it. 

AimSnapHolz
by on Jan. 28, 2013 at 3:15 PM

I get that you're upset about the money, but he did put it away in a folder and try to do just like you said and put it away. You're the one who opened the folder.

dearestwifey
by on Jan. 28, 2013 at 3:31 PM
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There is a fine line between "Just don't let me see you do it" and "I need to be able to lie to myself and say you don't do it, so go behind my back and I will be very upset if I dig and find it." But yeah, paying is ridiculous when there are so many free ones out there.

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