Hubby went out of town this past weekend for a hockey tourney. He left Friday and came back yesterday. He partied Friday and Sat night. I went out Friday night for a few hours. Anyhow, my girlfriend wants me to come out with her Friday night again. I told hubby I really want to go and he says, "Not sure why we can't just go together but that's fine. Ill just go out with my boys Sat night.". He said it quite sarcastic. I kind of got pissed and just didn't say anything because he was on his lunch break and I didn't want to start an argument then. I don't understand what the problem is. He was gone, basically a free man, for a whole weekend! I NEVER get to have girl time. I had a blast last Friday. I really want to go again! I love going out with hubby but sometimes its nice to have that girl time. Its pretty upsetting he doesn't see it that way. There have been MANY times I've stayed home so he could go fishing with his boys or go play hockey. He's probably stayed home with the kids maybe twice so I could go do something. Smh....I dont want to turn this into a huge fight but I really wish he could see the reason why I want girl time. Like I said, I love spending time with him but can't a girl have some GIRL time?
I plan on talking to him about it tonight but I honestly dont know how to talk to him about it. Like what to say and how to word it so it doesn't sound like I dont want to be around him. Help!!
on Jan. 28, 2013 at 3:54 PM