23 and already know that I know I wont be having anymore children.
I know that I wont be having anymore children, but not because I have a medical problem or anything like that. Its that my husband doesnt help with my 7 month old now, and I know its a battle trying to get him to help with this one child so I doubt he'll help with the next one OR with two children running about.
I feel that I should get my tubes tied or find a way to not have children again (without going the non sex route althought I am pretty close to doing that). I cant do this on my own and I dont want my child having a shadow of a father. Yes I have talked to my husband but talking really does not do anything. He doesnt change, he says that he is trying to change but he has made no changes. I have asked him to please put his phone away while watching our son but he still has it out. He has it out ALL the time! The only time he is not on that damn thing is if he is showering, having sex or sleeping. He is even on his phone while at work (thankfully it is allowed). He just doesnt do what I had ever expected.
I bathe, feed, change diapers, change clothes, get up with our son most nights. I have to force him into playing with him, changing our sons diaper, getting up with him some nights. I just cant keep this up. I cant keep telling him when our son needs changed, or is hungry or what he needs to do when our son is fussing. I just dont know what to do any more. I am constantly crying now because I am feeling overwelmed. My son is teething and I need my husbands help now more than ever.
Lets get this straight. I will NOT be leaving my husband. Just because he is a crappy father who doesnt change diapers or his clothes or gives him bathes does NOT give grounds for me to leave him.