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S/O- PORN

Posted by on Jan. 29, 2013 at 1:27 PM
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Poll

Question: Is porn okay?

Options:

Totally fine whenever

Only okay if I am there

Only okay if we aren't together

Never okay

Other, there is always other


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Total Votes: 133

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What are your thoughts on it?

I'm sure this has been before. I know it's a hot topic. 

I'll put a poll up. 


Thanks everyone who voted. I've wanted to do a poll for awhile and get some decent numbers. I appreciate all the input!

by on Jan. 29, 2013 at 1:27 PM
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meangreen18
by on Jan. 29, 2013 at 1:29 PM

 our sex life is not like it used to be nowadays with 2 kids and DH working 2 jobs. but i would much rather him watch porn to get off then another woman.

AimSnapHolz
by on Jan. 29, 2013 at 2:06 PM
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I don't have any problem with porn whatsoever. If SO wants to watch it and get off when I'm not around, who am I to stop him? Lol, when he goes to the store or something and I have 5 minutes alone (he works from home so he's almost always here), I take my vibrator and my iPod and run to the bathroom like nobody's business. I joke with him about it, too. "When you leave, I need you to drive reeeeeealllyyyyyyy sloooowwww so I can molest myself while you're gone." And pretty much every time I get home from work there's a bottle of lotion on his desk so I know he's been watching porn and masturbating, haha. I'm always just like, "Hmm, nice lotion there. Have fun?" He'll be like, "Yeah, twice!" Lmao.

SierraLynn
by Bronze Member on Jan. 29, 2013 at 2:07 PM

 I put other. We have agreed that it is only okay while he is deployed. I dont like him looking at it while he is home. I think its disrespectful since we have a pretty active love life. Ive caught him a few times and only once was I really hurt by it, it was a lottle more then just porn but i wont get into it. But we worked out our agreement and things have been great.

Serenity7
by Platinum Member on Jan. 29, 2013 at 2:13 PM
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 I don't agree with porn

thecoffeefairy
by on Jan. 29, 2013 at 2:16 PM
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Porn is great as long as our sex life is good. If my needs take a back seat to masturbation, there is a problem.
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pittawadda
by on Jan. 29, 2013 at 2:25 PM

I think I agree with this. I mean, I understand there are times occasionally, but we have an active sex life (except when he is deployed or away for training).

I think if we had issues in that department then I could see how porn or masturbation would equate to an issue. So maybe that's why I never see it as an issue. 


Quoting thecoffeefairy:

Porn is great as long as our sex life is good. If my needs take a back seat to masturbation, there is a problem.



jellybeanjean
by Bronze Member on Jan. 29, 2013 at 2:27 PM
It would bug me if he chose to look at porn instead of bone me. Unless I already said no..then I don't really care.
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dizziestdream
by on Jan. 29, 2013 at 2:28 PM
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I don't really like the thought of DH watching porn.  A bad imagination is unpardonable. LOL

RheaF
by Silver Member on Jan. 29, 2013 at 2:37 PM
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We both feel porn is very wrong. So thankfully, it is not an issue.
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xoxRachelxox
by on Jan. 29, 2013 at 3:16 PM

I have no problems with it.

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