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Question: Is porn okay?

Options:

Totally fine whenever

Only okay if I am there

Only okay if we aren't together

Never okay

Other, there is always other


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Total Votes: 133

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What are your thoughts on it?

I'm sure this has been before. I know it's a hot topic. 

I'll put a poll up. 


Thanks everyone who voted. I've wanted to do a poll for awhile and get some decent numbers. I appreciate all the input!

by on Jan. 29, 2013 at 1:27 PM
Replies (11-20):
furbabymum
by on Jan. 29, 2013 at 3:27 PM

 So long as my needs are being met in the bedroom he can wank of all he wants to porn. I read "porn" for women aka romance novels. I'd be a hypocrite if I said no.

pittawadda
by on Jan. 29, 2013 at 3:57 PM

Yeah, I had started reading some sci fi/ fantasy series stuff last time he was deployed and that was the first time I had ever read anything like that. I was like HOLY COW! 

Quoting furbabymum:

 So long as my needs are being met in the bedroom he can wank of all he wants to porn. I read "porn" for women aka romance novels. I'd be a hypocrite if I said no.



boshs1andonly
by on Jan. 29, 2013 at 3:59 PM

I don't really have an issue with it. Sometimes we watch it together, but months can go by without us doing it, not like it's a huge part of what we do. I know he watches it when I'm gone (I was gone for three weeks twice last year, I'm sure he watched it then and it doesn't bother me). 

SuperMom2433
by on Jan. 29, 2013 at 4:02 PM
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I voted totally fine whenever. I dont care if hubby watches porn. He never turns me down and constantly tells (and shows) me how attracted and turned on he is by me.
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SuperMom2433
by on Jan. 29, 2013 at 4:02 PM
This exactly!!


Quoting furbabymum:

 So long as my needs are being met in the bedroom he can wank of all he wants to porn. I read "porn" for women aka romance novels. I'd be a hypocrite if I said no.


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belleher90
by on Jan. 29, 2013 at 4:10 PM
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 my thoughts are if im available and so is he then why does he need porn? unless im depriving him of sexual contact theres no reason to watch it or get off on it when he has me.....he used to watch it as a teen which i totally get....but when we got married he said he didnt need to because he has me...if he feels like doing something all he has to do is come to me.....i just make sure that when he does i never say no....and it works that way for us.

furbabymum
by on Jan. 29, 2013 at 4:12 PM

 My DH and I had a hilarious conversation about the different ways people describe anatomy an such in books. I was laughing and asking him to let me feel his steel shaft, etc and he was pushing me off. lol

Quoting pittawadda:

Yeah, I had started reading some sci fi/ fantasy series stuff last time he was deployed and that was the first time I had ever read anything like that. I was like HOLY COW! 

Quoting furbabymum:

 So long as my needs are being met in the bedroom he can wank of all he wants to porn. I read "porn" for women aka romance novels. I'd be a hypocrite if I said no.

 

 

 

pittawadda
by on Jan. 29, 2013 at 4:16 PM

I feel like that is whole other thread! 


Quoting furbabymum:

 My DH and I had a hilarious conversation about the different ways people describe anatomy an such in books. I was laughing and asking him to let me feel his steel shaft, etc and he was pushing me off. lol

Quoting pittawadda:

Yeah, I had started reading some sci fi/ fantasy series stuff last time he was deployed and that was the first time I had ever read anything like that. I was like HOLY COW! 

Quoting furbabymum:

 So long as my needs are being met in the bedroom he can wank of all he wants to porn. I read "porn" for women aka romance novels. I'd be a hypocrite if I said no.



 



furbabymum
by on Jan. 29, 2013 at 4:25 PM

 Mmm I shall start it in Mom Confessions. Sounds most excellent. lol

Quoting pittawadda:

I feel like that is whole other thread! 

 

Quoting furbabymum:

 My DH and I had a hilarious conversation about the different ways people describe anatomy an such in books. I was laughing and asking him to let me feel his steel shaft, etc and he was pushing me off. lol

Quoting pittawadda:

Yeah, I had started reading some sci fi/ fantasy series stuff last time he was deployed and that was the first time I had ever read anything like that. I was like HOLY COW! 

Quoting furbabymum:

 So long as my needs are being met in the bedroom he can wank of all he wants to porn. I read "porn" for women aka romance novels. I'd be a hypocrite if I said no.

 

 

 

 

 

 

sydjademom24
by Rachel J on Jan. 29, 2013 at 4:52 PM
Totally fine whenever. I know what he does at work. I use his laptop and see his internet history. We watch it together. I have no problem with it.
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