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Poll

Question: Is porn okay?

Options:

Totally fine whenever

Only okay if I am there

Only okay if we aren't together

Never okay

Other, there is always other


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Total Votes: 133

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What are your thoughts on it?

I'm sure this has been before. I know it's a hot topic. 

I'll put a poll up. 


Thanks everyone who voted. I've wanted to do a poll for awhile and get some decent numbers. I appreciate all the input!

by on Jan. 29, 2013 at 1:27 PM
Replies (21-30):
SierraLynn
by Bronze Member on Jan. 29, 2013 at 6:31 PM
Tisk tisk. Lmao. Those romance novels make me laugh, I can't take them seriously in the least.
Dh was asking me if I wanted to read "50 shades of a whore or whatever its called" and we both just commenced to making fun of it.


Quoting pittawadda:

Yeah, I had started reading some sci fi/ fantasy series stuff last time he was deployed and that was the first time I had ever read anything like that. I was like HOLY COW! 


Quoting furbabymum:

 So long as my needs are being met in the bedroom he can wank of all he wants to porn. I read "porn" for women aka romance novels. I'd be a hypocrite if I said no.




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bugsmama149
by on Jan. 29, 2013 at 6:36 PM


My thoughts exactly!

Quoting SuperMom2433:

I voted totally fine whenever. I dont care if hubby watches porn. He never turns me down and constantly tells (and shows) me how attracted and turned on he is by me.



pittawadda
by on Jan. 29, 2013 at 6:41 PM

Yeah I won't read that. I haven't read "those books" since last deployment. And they were a specifc author haha.

I was surprised by how good the plot was besides the amount of sex in them. 


Quoting SierraLynn:

Tisk tisk. Lmao. Those romance novels make me laugh, I can't take them seriously in the least.
Dh was asking me if I wanted to read "50 shades of a whore or whatever its called" and we both just commenced to making fun of it.


Quoting pittawadda:

Yeah, I had started reading some sci fi/ fantasy series stuff last time he was deployed and that was the first time I had ever read anything like that. I was like HOLY COW! 


Quoting furbabymum:

 So long as my needs are being met in the bedroom he can wank of all he wants to porn. I read "porn" for women aka romance novels. I'd be a hypocrite if I said no.






DragonMother10
by on Jan. 29, 2013 at 6:41 PM
The only times my husband watched porn was before he met me and when we wer seperated for a week. Our sex life may not be the way it was before my son.was born, but it's not dead. There are a few times where he will masturbate in the shower, a lot of times there is a lot of build up if we hadn't had time for sex or.argue and he needs the relief. It used to bother me because I thought why not just have sex with me? He will want sex even more when he does it, so bring it on!

Porn is better than them sleeping with someone else and it's not considered cheating. My husband says porn gets old and is not the same as having real sex.
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faerie75
by Member on Jan. 29, 2013 at 6:42 PM

 its totally fine for me. i can see if myself or SO had an addiction to porn, tehn it wouldnt be ok. but he rarely ever looks at it. i look at it from time to time.

anotherandree
by Silver Member on Jan. 29, 2013 at 6:43 PM

I used to think that it was okay as long as we watched it together.  But now I have to stop and think, "That is someone's daughter.  That is someone's son."  Yes, that IS their choice to make those movies, but those movies are often not made under the best of circumstances and my watching those movies only encourages it.

MagicTemptation
by Christina on Jan. 29, 2013 at 7:06 PM

We are both ok with it whenever. We watch it together and seperately. It doesn't phase us either way. He always picks one me bc when we got together I had a much larger collection than he did.

StrawberryCool
by on Jan. 29, 2013 at 7:08 PM
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I dislike it.

I cant stand it.

Its not allowed in my relationship.

And its cheating.

A married man, or a man in a comitted relationship shouldnt be looking at another women naked

Period.
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eatyourveges
by Member on Jan. 29, 2013 at 8:10 PM
This is exactly our rule. We've never had an issue


Quoting thecoffeefairy:

Porn is great as long as our sex life is good. If my needs take a back seat to masturbation, there is a problem.

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pittawadda
by on Jan. 29, 2013 at 11:56 PM


I'm sorry, I saw this today on FB and thought it was funny to add....

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