S/O- PORN

[pittawadda]

What are your thoughts on it?

I'm sure this has been before. I know it's a hot topic. 

I'll put a poll up. 

Thanks everyone who voted. I've wanted to do a poll for awhile and get some decent numbers. I appreciate all the input!

[liams_mama12]

Porn is completely pointless. I mean I would RATHER him watch porn then physcially cheat on me, because porn is cheating. Men imagine themselves pleasing the woman in the video. They pretend that they're the one doing it. They're getting off by looking at another woman.... that's cheating. My dh told me that even looking at another woman out of lust is cheating. I have a great guy so I'm not worried about either ;)

[Jeanna03]

 

Quoting StrawberryCool:

I dislike it.

I cant stand it.

Its not allowed in my relationship.

And its cheating.

A married man, or a man in a comitted relationship shouldnt be looking at another women naked

Period.

 

[StrawberryCool]

My sex life is active as well.

Still doesnt mean anything.

He still doesnt need to be looking at another women naked period.

Quoting pittawadda:

I think I agree with this. I mean, I understand there are times occasionally, but we have an active sex life (except when he is deployed or away for training).

I think if we had issues in that department then I could see how porn or masturbation would equate to an issue. So maybe that's why I never see it as an issue. 

Quoting thecoffeefairy:

Porn is great as long as our sex life is good. If my needs take a back seat to masturbation, there is a problem.

[StrawberryCool]

My husband said the same thing.

Then I found THOUSANDS of porn on my computer.

And secondly, dont want to start a fight oe debate, but im sure there have been times youve said no.

I do not believe women who say that.

Quoting belleher90:

 my thoughts are if im available and so is he then why does he need porn? unless im depriving him of sexual contact theres no reason to watch it or get off on it when he has me.....he used to watch it as a teen which i totally get....but when we got married he said he didnt need to because he has me...if he feels like doing something all he has to do is come to me.....i just make sure that when he does i never say no....and it works that way for us.

[bookworm14]

I don't have much of a problem with it, as long as he is not choosing that over me. He has told me that sex isn't that important to him; so if he chooses taking care of things himself and/or watching, and I've made a move, then I have a problem. I hate that he doesn't seem like its a big deal, cuz to me its important. Not the top of my priorities, but I'd like it more than once a week or every 10 days. So if I know he's choosing to watch something that he's told me isn't important, then we've got a problem.

[lapcounter]

I am a confident, strong woman I don't have an issue with porn, things like playboy or strip clubs. Not a big deal.

[tifbrown]

I have no issues with porn. Hubby works away so he can have at it. He doesn't watch when he is home, he would rather me.

[Opalescent]

Exactly! :-)

Quoting belleher90:

 my thoughts are if im available and so is he then why does he need porn? unless im depriving him of sexual contact theres no reason to watch it or get off on it when he has me.....he used to watch it as a teen which i totally get....but when we got married he said he didnt need to because he has me...if he feels like doing something all he has to do is come to me.....i just make sure that when he does i never say no....and it works that way for us.

[PISCIS29]

I'm okay with it. I love to watch with or without him. Idk if he knows for sure that I watch without him sometimes

[pittawadda]

Are you saying that you NEVER say no? Even if you really don't want to?

Quoting belleher90:

 my thoughts are if im available and so is he then why does he need porn? unless im depriving him of sexual contact theres no reason to watch it or get off on it when he has me.....he used to watch it as a teen which i totally get....but when we got married he said he didnt need to because he has me...if he feels like doing something all he has to do is come to me.....i just make sure that when he does i never say no....and it works that way for us.