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Poll

Question: Is porn okay?

Options:

Totally fine whenever

Only okay if I am there

Only okay if we aren't together

Never okay

Other, there is always other


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Total Votes: 133

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What are your thoughts on it?

I'm sure this has been before. I know it's a hot topic. 

I'll put a poll up. 


Thanks everyone who voted. I've wanted to do a poll for awhile and get some decent numbers. I appreciate all the input!

by on Jan. 29, 2013 at 1:27 PM
Replies (61-67):
belleher90
by on Jan. 31, 2013 at 8:03 PM

 

Quoting pittawadda:to be honest not reaally, ive thought about it and ive never said no to him...however hes not the type of guy who always wants it either,, so it allowes me to not get tired of it.....and ive never found myself not bieng in the mood...im always in the mood for my husband.....



 

Are you saying that you NEVER say no? Even if you really don't want to?

 

Quoting belleher90:

 my thoughts are if im available and so is he then why does he need porn? unless im depriving him of sexual contact theres no reason to watch it or get off on it when he has me.....he used to watch it as a teen which i totally get....but when we got married he said he didnt need to because he has me...if he feels like doing something all he has to do is come to me.....i just make sure that when he does i never say no....and it works that way for us.

 

 

 

pittawadda
by on Jan. 31, 2013 at 8:09 PM

Interesting. Okay.

I have said no. My husband isn't the type to always want it either. But there are times I have said no. But then again we have sort of made deals haha. I would say okay, how about tomorrow and I would make it point that we would tomorrow and I would never say tomorrow and it wouldn't happen.

But we has also said no because he was REALLY tired. 

Quoting belleher90:

 

Quoting pittawadda:to be honest not reaally, ive thought about it and ive never said no to him...however hes not the type of guy who always wants it either,, so it allowes me to not get tired of it.....and ive never found myself not bieng in the mood...im always in the mood for my husband.....



 

Are you saying that you NEVER say no? Even if you really don't want to?


Quoting belleher90:

 my thoughts are if im available and so is he then why does he need porn? unless im depriving him of sexual contact theres no reason to watch it or get off on it when he has me.....he used to watch it as a teen which i totally get....but when we got married he said he didnt need to because he has me...if he feels like doing something all he has to do is come to me.....i just make sure that when he does i never say no....and it works that way for us.



 



belleher90
by on Jan. 31, 2013 at 8:12 PM

 well u dont have to beleive me, its ur opinnion and ur entittled to it, but thats the truth and yes ive never said no .....i know its hard to beleive but its the truth. thats all i can say. and maybe the reason i have never said no is because im never not in the mood to be intimate with my husband.....and no i havent caught him with any porn ....so i have no reason not to trust him in that department....he can live without porn , its not a need that he has.....and like i said in my post before....being with eachother is enough for us...we dont need anything else :)

Quoting StrawberryCool:

My husband said the same thing.

Then I found THOUSANDS of porn on my computer.

And secondly, dont want to start a fight oe debate, but im sure there have been times youve said no.

I do not believe women who say that.


Quoting belleher90:

 my thoughts are if im available and so is he then why does he need porn? unless im depriving him of sexual contact theres no reason to watch it or get off on it when he has me.....he used to watch it as a teen which i totally get....but when we got married he said he didnt need to because he has me...if he feels like doing something all he has to do is come to me.....i just make sure that when he does i never say no....and it works that way for us.


 

belleher90
by on Jan. 31, 2013 at 8:16 PM

 

Quoting pittawadda:yea alot of women do say no obviously for different reasons and my hubb has said no to me lol for that reason that he was tired lol but i havent yet....idk its wierd that i havent but its true lol even my hubb thinks its odd that i havent said i was tired or not in the mood....but its no big deal to me.....

Interesting. Okay.

I have said no. My husband isn't the type to always want it either. But there are times I have said no. But then again we have sort of made deals haha. I would say okay, how about tomorrow and I would make it point that we would tomorrow and I would never say tomorrow and it wouldn't happen.

But we has also said no because he was REALLY tired. 

Quoting belleher90:

 

Quoting pittawadda:to be honest not reaally, ive thought about it and ive never said no to him...however hes not the type of guy who always wants it either,, so it allowes me to not get tired of it.....and ive never found myself not bieng in the mood...im always in the mood for my husband.....



 

Are you saying that you NEVER say no? Even if you really don't want to?

 

Quoting belleher90:

 my thoughts are if im available and so is he then why does he need porn? unless im depriving him of sexual contact theres no reason to watch it or get off on it when he has me.....he used to watch it as a teen which i totally get....but when we got married he said he didnt need to because he has me...if he feels like doing something all he has to do is come to me.....i just make sure that when he does i never say no....and it works that way for us.

 

 

 

 

 

 

manamott
by on Jan. 31, 2013 at 8:28 PM

I'm fine with it whenever. The only time I could see it being a problem is if he preferred to watch porn over having sex with me. Which is not at all the case in my situation. He only ever watches it if I'm out of town or something.

la_bella_vita
by Bella on Feb. 1, 2013 at 12:00 AM

 I'm fine with it because my husband is not a huge fan, lol.

MMerrill
by Melissa on Feb. 1, 2013 at 5:57 PM

Most men lie about it, which is what would really get me.  My husband isn't really into it, but I'm sure he has watched it before and he may very well watch it again in his life time but I better damn well know about it, and even then I wouldn't be too happy about it.  I think it's disrespectful and there really is no room for that in our marriage.

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