He is a jerk, don't listen to him, that is mental/verbal abuse and HE needs help.
As far as baby weight, eat healthy, not to lose weight but to BE healthy. Some women lose the weight as soon as baby pops out, others it takes awhile. Don't stress. Hugs
Wow, he sounds like a complete ass. You just had HIS baby and he's complaining about your weight. That isn't okay. He should be telling you that you are beautiful and keep his mouth shut after that.
Ask him how well his body would hold up carrying a child for ninth months.
He sounds like a verbally abusive douche!
You just pushed his offspring out of your hooha and he is criticizing your weight?
Sounds like he needs a swift kick in the dick.
Honestly though, we do not tolerant that kind of talk in our household. If one of us starts to get out of line with something, we put each other in check and remind them, that we may have arguesments but we have a Zero tolerance for disrespect. Him picking on you for your weight is unacceptable. If YOU want to lose weight for you, then go ahead, if not it is your body.
We do not believe it is our place to point out each others flaws unless it directly affects the family.
Tell him to kiss it where the sun doesn't shine. I'm sure he isn't perfect so he has absolutely no right to point out any of your flaws.
If he were my husband he'd be sleeping elsewhere.
What is your best......
- sashax
on Jan. 30, 2013 at 8:07 AM