I'm 27 and have 2 beautiful boys. I recently ended a 4 year relationship with the father of my children because we had a hard time getting along and he never made a real commitment to me (proposal, or even a promise ring) Now I'm afraid I never will find anyone that I love who I want to marry and wants to marry me. It is important to me that I have that commitment sometime in my life. It seems every single man around my age either is divorced with several kids or is afraid of commitment like my ex was. All the good guys are taken! I feel that I wasted too much time waiting for my ex when I should have realized he would never commit to me and moved on a long time ago before having kids with him and before aging as much as I have. Maybe I'm being negative because I am still upset about the break-up, but this has really been bothering me and I'm getting pretty depressed. Posotive words would be appreciated.