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I don't think I'm in love....

Posted by on Jan. 30, 2013 at 7:36 PM
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What does being in love mean, feel like and how can I tell if I am?
by on Jan. 30, 2013 at 7:36 PM
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CocoMama88
by Member on Jan. 30, 2013 at 7:37 PM
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You would never have to question it.
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LOVES67
by on Jan. 30, 2013 at 7:54 PM

 love come on his own, we all feel love in a different ways..

GELiz
by on Jan. 30, 2013 at 8:15 PM
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Well, there is infatuation, which is the initial attraction. Then you think about him all the time, want to be with him all the time, and only think about his good traits. And want to be loved by him.

Then there is the other love, stronger and more enduring. That is when he irritates the hell out of you, but you can forgive it and still want to make his meals. - When you support him, want to care for him, understand him even his faults. That is the love that gets you through the tough times.

ttc1rainbow
by on Jan. 30, 2013 at 8:20 PM

No one person has the same answer to this question...but IMO if you have to ask what it is then chances are, you're not. That's just my opinion. :)

SoJosMom
by on Jan. 30, 2013 at 8:22 PM
You just know and would not question it. Love is weird like that.
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Mrsfarr
by on Jan. 30, 2013 at 8:26 PM
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Using your description, I'm still infatuated with my husband after six years. Lol.


Quoting GELiz:

Well, there is infatuation, which is the initial attraction. Then you think about him all the time, want to be with him all the time, and only think about his good traits. And want to be loved by him.

Then there is the other love, stronger and more enduring. That is when he irritates the hell out of you, but you can forgive it and still want to make his meals. - When you support him, want to care for him, understand him even his faults. That is the love that gets you through the tough times.


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Dqnana
by Member on Jan. 30, 2013 at 9:31 PM

Well ... it's kinda like the definition of "pornography".  I can't really describe it, but I know it when I see it.  You will know it when you feel it.

divinemomma
by Member on Jan. 31, 2013 at 1:59 PM
AleaKat
by on Jan. 31, 2013 at 2:00 PM

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Bauxite-17
by on Jan. 31, 2013 at 2:08 PM

You've heard this answer I'm sure, but, you wouldn't have to question whether you were in love or not....you would know if you were really in love. For better or worse, through sickness and in health, till death do you part....love is being able to make it to the end and still say I love you and mean it.

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