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Husband free pass?

Posted by on Jan. 31, 2013 at 1:38 PM
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This is gonna sound nuts to some of you but I've met a lot of women who for one medical reason or another were told to not have sex during pregnancy so what they did is.....
gave their husband permission to have sex with other women during that time.

Really?!
I had a 3rd degree episiotomy with my first and it was 6 months before I could have sex without agonizing pain. I'm not saying he didn't look at the occasional porn but he had the will power to be faithful.
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bookworm14
by Mandy on Jan. 31, 2013 at 3:01 PM
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That is the most assinine thing I've ever heard. Those women must not value their marriage. There's no way I'd give my boyfriend a free pass. He wants another woman, we'll go our separate ways.
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zinniadaisy
by on Jan. 31, 2013 at 3:04 PM

that's stupid

Mrsfarr
by on Jan. 31, 2013 at 3:15 PM
My husband would be offended if I told him he could sleep with another woman.
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roxanna79
by Bronze Member on Jan. 31, 2013 at 4:48 PM
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Oh hell NO! He helped put u in the position of being pregnant and u have the duty of labor and delivery. The least he can do is have enough willpower to keep his winkey dry. He has a hand if he needs a release for crying outloud. Some peoples children.. Smh
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earthangel1967
by YVONNE on Jan. 31, 2013 at 4:57 PM

 No way would I allow that and I wouldnt be with anyone who wanted one either

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mommy2be77
by on Jan. 31, 2013 at 4:59 PM
Hell to the no!!!!!!
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Raeann11
by Silver Member on Jan. 31, 2013 at 5:07 PM

No way, there are plently of other ways I can please my man.

thecoffeefairy
by on Jan. 31, 2013 at 5:28 PM
That is between them. I think it could lead to jealousy though.
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anotherandree
by Bronze Member on Jan. 31, 2013 at 5:31 PM
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I think my husband would say something (laughingly) like, "Really?!  Score!"  But then do absolutely nothing because he knows that 1) I was not really serious 2) he would not ruin our marriage 3) we are BOTH faithful.

Surprise_Baby00
by on Jan. 31, 2013 at 5:32 PM

No!! NO matter what, I would never be ok with that. I didn't tear or have an episiotomy with any kids, but for some reason, after my second, I was in agony for months. We didn't have intercourse for nearly 3 months, which is the longest we'd ever gone without since we started having sex. We still had sex though, there are ways besides intercourse, but even then, it was rare, because we had two small kids. My husband is an adult, he has very good self control, and our relationship is about more than sex, and he would never jepordize that. And the only way I'd ever be ok with him sleeping with another woman, would be after the ink on our divorce papers is dry!

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