Does your SO expect you to be his house b****? WHat good is it to be a house b**** anyway?

[1der1]

Sorry....let me rephrase that.  Didn't mean to offend anyone?  His house WIFE/GIRLFRIEND?

Does your SO expect you to be his house bitch?  You know...cook and clean and just be there for him and the kids at all times.  Or do you feel that you are trapped?    What good is it for your relationship to be the house bitch?

[KVnC]

I'm a housewife but i enjoy it. Sometimes i feel like i can't go out and have fun like a lot of girls my age but that's my job now with a baby on the way. If i wanted to do those things i shouldn't have gotten pregnant and committed to a marriage.

[lizmartinez]

Quoting CrazyLife1996:

I'm definitely not his housebitch. I'm his wife and he would never disrespect me.



Everything I do is because I enjoy doing it not because he expects it.

[la-cosa-nostra]

He's my house bitch :)

[jlbelknap35]

Lol no, I am a SAHM but both of us would like me to be able to work but can't find a job worth the cost of 2 kids in daycare.

[Jalestra]

LOL Nope. I didn't stay home to be his maid. I stayed home for our children. The house is a third priority, provided it's not nasty. Next year when ALL the kids are in school I'll probably spend the early afternoons doing housework, but he doesn't expect it. 

Of course, I don't let my house get nasty, but I'm not going to pretend it's for him or my job. I just don't like a nasty house.

[MMerrill]

Well considering I don't work and my husband works out of state 4-5 days a week, yeah I do all the cooking, cleaning, laundry and taking care of our son of course.  He helps out with our son and his own specific things when he's home.  Sometimes it get's old but that's not because of him, that's because sometimes I just have too much going on to do it with my son's appointments and stuff, we have them almost every day.  Other than that I enjoy being a house wife for now, I do enjoy working though so I might go back part time at some point.

[ToolArmy066]

Damn straight I'm his bitch!!! :)

[model1000mom]

Nope he expects me to be his soulmate and what I choose to do for him is my decision. 

[pittymama]

you, again. i almost didn't reply to this because i remember your LAST "he expects me to do everything" and the one about "him not having dinner made on time"

i'm a house wife. he doesn't expect it. I AM HIS WIFE. i'm also a stay at home MOM. your outlook on things is so wrong.

[pittymama]

do you remember her last couple of posts? i recognize her screen name and every post is whining about something similar. 

Quoting Hottmomma607: